Some days earlier, I took a decision to be more selfish and cruel. Acting upon the decision; I will never again - I know; NEVER is a pretty strong word to use, but I am 100% sure that I will not be doing any of these ever.
a. Split costs with / lend money to Wally ( its a pseudonym; ref Dilbert) who always forgets when I made the payments, and whenever I ask for his share, talk vaguely about money/favors that I owe him. I end up without my cash and with an unfounded guilty complex.
b. Stay in my crap pot PG because ( and on;y because the house owner - who let out her ground floor to my landlady - considers me like her own daughter and specifically asks me to stay on in that place; forfeiting my privacy and HRA.
c. Attend to calls which is nothing less or more than eating up my time and which leaves me feeling useless and make me end up resenting a lot of things.
d. Spend money when I don't want to for the sake of it; on people whom I don't want to for the sake of it.
c. Ever tell Wally any of my personal stuff. ( yeah, I'm pretty mad at Wally now)
e. Let personal relationships come into the way of my work.
Screw you guys, I'm going home! ( originally attributed to Eric C.)